Alternative Title: Why “Inspiration P*rn” Hurts The Chronic Illness Community Disability and admitting that one is disabled should not be a social faux pas. Everyone is fully able-bodied temporarily. Whether it ends in a sudden accident or the slow creep of life, we’ll all face it in some way. Many […]
Pain
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It came up several times in conversations recently, that my ability to tolerate pain is something to aspire to. Each time someone says it, it’s like a punch to the gut. Which, I realize can be an odd thing to say. A high pain tolerance sounds like a super power […]
From the outside looking in, interpersonal interactions of someone with a chronic illness or pain can look a bit unpredictable. Canceled plans at a moment’s notice, stretches of non-communication, sudden shifts in functionality, dazing out while you’re talking, or repeating their stories. While we often talk about the underlying cause […]
Neurologist appointment today, and oh did I have questions for her. The *dead* feeling in my right butt cheek, and radiating all the way down to my toes is making me insane! I cannot get away from it, I want to crawl out of my own skin. And my arms, […]
I’ve been going through a rough spot recently. I just got informed that my ankle that has been giving me problems will have to be surgically redone and the previous implant has already been taken out after a car wreck dislodged it. I’ve been subluxing my elbow, which is a […]
I have a high tolerance for internal pain. I don’t say this in boasting, because in all honestly its more of a hindrance than a benefit. I’ve worked through migraines and walked 200 yards to work on a dislocated hip. While this may spur thoughts of “Wow! You’re tough! That’s […]
I wanted to take a moment today to go into what makes things so very difficult when you’ve got a connective tissue disorder and trying to exercise because whether it’s to just stay moving, lose weight, or reduce pain…it all boils down to similar issues. (This can also be why, […]
So, I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia when I was in my early 20s. I was showing symptoms long before that. And I had chronic pneumonia from my childhood, on top of asthma, ADHD, and depression. I was working for a company that had me commuting roughly 10 hours a day, […]
I’ve been told this a lot recently I just had my second major surgery. It went well and though it was only a week ago, I can tell it’s healing pretty good thus far. The surgery prep was less than phenomenal, though it wasn’t the fault of a bad nursing […]
Learning to Let People Help Isn’t Always Easy I’m not talking about asking your brother to pass the salt at dinner or getting the smart kid that sits next to you in class to “help” you with your essay, though I’m sure both those examples can come with their share […]